dear you

Dear sad girl,

It is highly advisable for you to stop being in contact men in your past that, whilst still very helpful in assisting you in your troubles and getting that smile back on your face for some unbeknownst reasons. This help/assistance may very well still affect your emotional health in the following hours/days/fill in the blanks when reality comes kicking in.

Reasons for disillusion:
  1. He may still be as good looking as you remember the reasons why you fell for him in the first place. What can you do, you did share a history.
  2. He may also still call you pet names that you secretly hate, but allow it anyway because it was intimately shared between the two of you and no one can take that away.   
  3. He will tell you what makes you beautiful is your smile, your easy-going persona...your laugh... and you will believe it- DONT!

The main point is, he knows you. He will no doubt find a way to (fill in the blanks with any intimate knowledge of you) and at the same time, boost his penal ego. You know this is true.


But above all, remember he also was the one who chose to walk away from you.

He did not even have the courtesy to do it with  respect to your dignity (or face to face other than Skype).

Sure, he claims that he will always care about you, but do you really more claims of this ? Or don't you think the love you have for yourself means more than a few fleeting flattering moments this guy can ever offer?

Summing it all- No, never not a good idea to be in contact with MR nasty.

Yes, they care.

But not enough to stick around. 
No need to text/call/skype your cous/sis/galpal or therapist to ask to clear your conscience. 
This is the reality.


Love from,

your ever loving self


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